This is such a great question, . I'm sure everyone will offer different strategies.
I tend to avoid food altogether at gatherings. I try to remind myself that certain foods (like chips and cheese) are not unique enough to make them worth the calories. Of course, if it's a meal, that's different. Then I try to stick only with the amount of food I would normally eat at home and I try to balance my plate. Non negotiable rule-setting (no bread or appetizers) for restuarants and gatherings helps me tremendously.
I'm interested to read what others have to say. Thanks for asking this!
Lori (Team Member)