Obesity Frustrations
What are some things that frustrate you most about living with obesity?
We are lazy, we stink. All we do is eat. And eat junk. Wondering what seating is like at a restaurant, theater, etc. Having trouble finding clothes, shoes.
The seating issue doesn't make sense to me. So many people are obsese or suffering from other health conditions that make narrow seating uncomfortable or difficult. You'd think restaurant, theaters, airlines, etc, would be more accomodating in hope of customer loyalty.
And the stereotypes are cruel and unfair. Some of the strongest people I know are obsese, and hygeine has nothing to do with weight. I wish such ignorance and cruelty didn't exist, but, sadly, some people will never get it unless they experience weight battles themselves. I am glad we have this community, where empathy is the norm. - Lori (Team Member)
That it is our fault, we're lazy and we have poor eating and exercise habits.
Genetics and other health conditions (or their treatments), too. It's a lot more than just eating right and exercising for sure. I don't celebrate this holiday since not everyone was "free" when it was proclaimed. It isn't inclusive of any people of color at all and we are on stolen land, so I've spent it working like any other day.
you are so right about how a person's genetics and/or health conditions and their treatments could affect a person's weight. It seems like every medication I am on for one thing or the other has weight gain as a side effect. So I have to weigh the balance of the treatment versus the possible weight gain I might have. I hope that you are well and having a good day. ~Shay (team member)
Being that I suffer with bipolar disorder and depression I also suffer from COPD and am oxygen dependent making my weight gain after having five children is literally challenging
to interact with them
They never want to spend time with me and they constantly remind me that I am too much of a burden and they don’t have the energy or patience for my
presence
My family and friends never invite me to go anywhere nor include me in anything
Obesity, how could I forget that?! After a couple of days on Prednisone encourages me to graze on food, in my mind anyway. Because of allergies and stomach issues, I’m limited on food choices. I only have a top denture, so soft food is what I can eat. Cereal is often my #1, chicken #2. I seldom eat out. Thats usually my choice. Often if it’s an event, I take a cold meat sandwich with me as well as an egg free dessert.
-JanetThanks for jumping in here and offering support,
. I'm sure it is helpful to hear from someone else with COPD. I am glad you have your pups at your side. They are such awesome companions. Sending the warmest of wishes your way. - Lori (Team Member)
The misconceptions about health and weight, BMI charts (out dated and extremely biased), that even medical professionals don't understand fully the effects of other diagnoses and treatments (like cancer/chemotherapy) on the body and that sometimes things get worse and the person experiencing the worsening symptoms has no fault or control.
, I have been in remission since I had my surgery in September 2016 (surgery, then chemo for me). I did not have steroids, but the chemo cocktail I had is one of the strongest they're legally allowed to give, according to my oncologist. They've been using it for decades, and since bladder cancer is stereotypically an old, chain-smoking white man's disease. They didn't include women in many clinical trials until the 80s, especially young women, and the treatment was never trialed on people like me, so the effects I've had, even long after treatment, have been much more severe and long-lasting than what is typical. What a journey,
. They must have been very interested in seeing how you responded to the treatment. I hope you continue to see some improvement from the side effects over the years and that your cancer is gone for good. - Lori (Team Member)
