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What people should know

What do you wish more people not living with extra weight or obesity understood?

What misconceptions do you wish were cleared up?

  1. To be honest, both. I don't despise being obese but it definitely makes life harder. In many ways. I wish obesity was not as prevalent due to health and I wish it was understood more.

    1. I agree, . Wise words. - Lori (Team Member)

  2. Sometimes I'm polite and sometimes I'm not lol. I have been obese since I was 4 years old. I'm 45 now. Being obese has taught me a lot. Good and bad. Especially not to judge people based on looks. Some will never learn that lesson. I used to think that was my problem. I now know it's their loss.

    1. Those are the best of strategies, especially the understanding that their issues with weight are not your problem. I love that perspective. I also love that your experience has led to empathy and compassion for others whose looks might set them apart. Thanks for being part of the conversation and the community! - Lori (Team Member)

    2. thank you so much for your kind words.

  3. The struggles that we face, the ways we are discriminated against daily.

    1. Wouldn't it be wonderful if more people showed more compassion and empathy or, better yet, simply saw past the weight, ? Do you have any strategies for dealing with judgemental people? Have you been dealing with obesity for long? Please know that you have found a community of people here who care and who are here to support you. Sending lots of gentle hugs your way. - Lori (Team Member)

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